EVERYONE IN A DEAD END RELATIONSHIP OR RECENTLY OUT OF ONE- get this book NOW! Get it on CD if possible. I am so lucky that my local library had it on CD, and I happened to find it the day after my ex and I started taking a "break." It saved my life, energy, dignity and heart during and after my break-up, it gives the best advice ever! It was written by the dude who wrote "He's Just Not That Into You," Greg something, I don't know how to spell his last name, and his wife. They wrote it together, it's very cute... has anyone read this book? If you haven't, read it after you've broken up and tell all your friends just out of relaitonships to read it as well!!